Find An Investing Mentor Or Coach

When you listen to very successful people, one of the factors they often cite as having contributed to their success is having a mentor.

The presence of someone other than yourself in your life that has your best interest in mind can be huge. A mentor can cut your learning curve in half by showing you the right way to do something, because he’s already been there and done that.

That kind of coaching is priceless.

When I worked at Spear, Leeds and Kellogg, first as an assistant and later as a trader, my mentor was a guy named Jimmy Morris. He was an incredibly nice man, and taught me everything he knew about how to make markets in a stock. When I left Jimmy and became my own trader, I was armed with everything he taught me during our time working together.

After Spear Leeds was bought by Goldman Sachs, most of us were gone within a few years and unfortunately lost touch.

It took years for me to find another mentor, but I did – and I’ve never even met him in person.

His name is David Gardner, co-founder of The Motley Fool.

When I worked on Wall Street, I had a short-term trader’s mentality. The thought of buying something and holding on to it for years was not in my consciousness. Most of the traders that worked on the trading desk had that same mentality.

It wasn’t until I started listening to the Rule Breaker Investing podcast that I learned about compounding your money over many, many years.

In the late 90s, I sat front row for the the birth of companies that would go on to transform the world we lived in: AOL, Amazon, Google and eBay, among others. I came very close to pulling the trigger on Amazon…but I got talked out of it. What a huge mistake that was!

Buying and holding Amazon from 1997 to now would have generated incredible wealth. The only question is: would I, in fact, have held it all this time?

The answer to that question is “probably not” – and the main reason would be attributed to not having had a mentor.

You see, a mentor will help you to not make the number one mistake most investors make – which is selling too soon.

Even the great investors can make this mistake! Case in point: in 1965, Warren Buffett invested $4,000,000 in Disney after meeting with Walt Disney himself. About a year later, he sold the stock after a 50% gain. Now, turning $4,000,000 in to $6,000,000 is a fantastic return…however, if Warren had held on to his investment, he would have made 2870 times his money. His total return would have been close to $11.5 billion.

If today’s Warren could have mentored younger Warren, I’m sure he would have told him to buy and hold.


My book, The Stock Market is For Everyone, is a short guide for the beginning, inexperienced investor that is easy to understand and can be put into action immediately.

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2 thoughts on “Find An Investing Mentor Or Coach

  • So true about “if I would have held” the stock. I have a history of checking my account every day, and selling when things go up. If I’d just SET AND FORGET I would be so much better off. Like when I got in on ford shares after the auto bailout, and made a fast 25%. I could have gotten lots of quarterly payments and made my money many times over.

    • It’s human nature to sell once we have a profit for fear of losing that profit. I’ve had to train myself to not sell after being up 100% because you have to let things play out over time.

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